If you do basic research, such as conducting a search using a portal such as or looking through social media sites, and can't find anything about a person, that is a red flag.
Even most social media sites that allow strict privacy settings will at least show you the first page of a person's profile.
Herewith, my analysis of 10 dating-site names, from dated to dateworthy. It reminds me of the sound old guys make when they sneeze.
People abbreviate it OKC, which always makes me wonder what’s up in Oklahoma City. – who’s the curator of a pathology museum in the UK and who has a wonderful Twitter handle: La Petit Mort-ician. The name was originally Matchbox; it was deemed too close to competitor Match and changed to Tinderbox, then shortened to Tinder.
Video chatting with a person that you meet online is a common, normal practice in online dating.
In fact, all the couples I know who met online said that their first real conversations were over the phone or by video chat.
Most professionals will at least have a Linked In page. Do some reconnaissance by using search engines to find public records.
If you cannot find anything on the Internet about a person, they might not be telling you their real name, which is again a red flag. You might discover that (as with of Glenn Whitter) other people have complained about a person. If a person says they own a house, you will be able to easily determine if that's true, and also where it is and how long they have lived there.
He even was so bold as to take one of the women to "his condo" in Toronto, though as it turned out, he was not listed in any records as the owner of the condo.
He was very sophisticated in his deception and specifically targeted his victims based on the information that they chose to self-disclose on social media.
Whatever their interests were, Whitter made sure to make them his also.
In fact, people lying on online dating sites has become so prevalent that a popular documentary film and television show coined a term for it--being "catfished." The good news is that you can protect yourself by learning how to spot a phony while dating online.
I go in-depth on the topic in my book , but for now, let's take a look at seven indications that someone that you are talking with might be catfishing you and use them to help catch the catfisher. If a person won't video chat or carry on a telephonic conversation.