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Yeah, I’m in school now and working towards something.

but I’ve actually stopped dating a woman I was interested in because I wasn’t where I needed to be financially. Census report—“Number, Timing and Duration of Marriages and Divorces: 2009”—shows that Americans across all racial lines are waiting longer to marry.

If I had an already successful daughter, I’d want her to date an already successful man.

From a personal standpoint, though, I wouldn’t even want to enter a serious relationship unless I had my shit together.

I just wish that for once the older man would brush her off and encourage her to go off and find someone a little closer to her age to explore with, at least until she reaches the status of a legal adult.

—the 1997 romantic comedy that made everyone think Kevin Smith was the next Woody Allen when he really just turned out to be Nicholas Sparks with Tourette’s—there’s a scene where Banky (Jason Lee) is trying to convince his best friend Holden (Ben Affleck) that the woman Holden has fallen in love with, Alyssa (played by a surprisingly fetching Joey Lauren Adams), is still a lesbian (she “became” straight after meeting Holden) and will eventually leave Holden and break his heart. ♦◊♦I’m reminded of this scene every time I remind people that the dating game isn’t exactly smooth sailing for every 21- to 35-year-old black man. Census, while only 24% of white women and 23% of Asian women have never been married, a staggering 45% of black women have never walked down the aisle, a fact that’s mainly due to the lack of eligible black male options. Not bad for a ghost.♦◊♦Berook’s statement reflected a trend I’ve noticed among the educated men in my social and occupational circles: a trend split into racial lines.

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When we ignore the problem, we allow it to flourish.I have more stories than I can count of sneaking out of school to meet up with men in their twenties and thirties so that we could drive around in his car drinking the alcohol he’d brought us and sneaking an illicit cigarette.When you’re a teenager it doesn’t take much to make you feel sophisticated.It happens at every school, in every town, all over the world.Don’t we all have that friend who dated an ‘older’ guy when she was at school?

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